Check out this powerful blog from CFC clinician, Dr. Esther Chon, which was featured on Mother Squad.com. Dr. Chon is a mom and a clinical psychologist with a specialty in Infant Mental Health and Maternal Mental Health.
To quote Mother Squad, "Dr. Chon writes about the experience of having a picture in your head of what your baby will be like versus what the "real" baby is actually like. This process of grieving, accepting, and loving repeats itself throughout motherhood. Dr. Chon draws from her own experiences as a mom."